The thing we must remember as parents during this is that is that it is not about the wrongs that are being done to us, at least not yet…….We have to address that later. Right now our goal is getting our children home and suing them is not going  to accomplish this goal, in fact it works against it. The sad fact is that we must play by their rules first and win, then we can shove their rules and actions up their ass after our kids come home safe.